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Katie's avatar

The constant debate that goes on in my head daily🤕

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Gabriela's avatar

I’m with you!!!

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Dai☆'s avatar

Dear Gabriela, everything you write is a peace of art💗

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Gabriela's avatar

Hi Dai, thank you so much 🥹 What a lovely comment to leave!!!

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holly chapman's avatar

I love this line 💕

“Because I am in love with people, and in love with love, and I’ll never let the fear of getting hurt prevent me from having a romantic adventure.”

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Gabriela's avatar

Thanks Holly 🥹🩵

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Sara Kay's avatar

I loved this - "You can never predict other people’s feelings, but you can always pay attention to your own." This has helped me so such in learning my own attachment and why I should consider my feelings first and foremost before being afraid of something ending!

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Caroline Beuley's avatar

"you can never predict other people's feelings, but you can always pay attention to your own." !!! YES! I feel like my intuition always told me right away when something was over, which allowed me to prepare for the ending I knew was coming. It's such a valuable tool in dating and in life. Loved this piece Gabriela :) I totally agree that while relationships and connections inherently involve the risk of getting hurt, it will always be worth it to keep trying!

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Abi Lopes's avatar

Such a gorgeous piece I love how you write with such honesty and clarity 🫶🫶

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AimeeSarahCarmichael's avatar

I loved this post because I just went through this and it hurts so much. Its your past dating experiences coming back to haunt you but also the fear that you're the problem. My anxiety had been playing up, i could sense him pulling away but the bracing myself for the impact never made it any easier. Plus it reminds me that no amount of worrying over it is going to stop them leaving.

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